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If you get friendzoned, that sucks. Really, it does. But you can’t bitch and moan about it unless this is the scenario:
You’re with a girl who thinks you’re awesome. And you think she’s awesome, obviously. And there’s a ton of heavy flirting and you’re like “Damn, this might actually go somewhere.” And she tells you shit like “Man, I’m sick of dating douchebags. I want to date someone like you for a change.”
And you’re all “Aw yeah!”
And then she turns around and dates a total scumbag. Someone who is a perfect asshat, who uses her for sex or doesn’t treat her right or makes her do stuff she doesn’t want to do. THEN you can complain that you’re a fuckin’ “nice guy” or whatever.
But, dude…if she dates a guy who’s great to her…hell, even just good to her…you’re not allowed to complain that “nice guys finish last.” Because the dude she’s dating is also one of your “nice guys” and she’s legitimately happy.
Just because she dates someone else, that doesn’t give you free reign to complain about how you were friendzoned or whatever. It doesn’t work that way and it’s never worked that way. Only if she’s dating a complete and utter dick is that alright to complain about.
Like…Scott Pilgrim could’ve said that he was a nice guy who got friendzoned when Ramona started dating Gideon. Because the guy was a prick and everyone knew it. If she started dating, say, Peter Parker or something (Universes collide!!), then he would’ve had to dry his fucking tears and move on.
It’s a hard thing to accept, but sometimes a girl just doesn’t like you. And I’m not saying you can’t be upset, because that would be fucking idiotic to say. Of course you can be upset that the girl of your dreams decided to date someone other than you. That sucks. But…don’t dust off the “nice guy” excuse until youreally need it.
tl;dr - Not every single rejection can lead to a guy bitching about being a “nice guy” in the “friend zone”. Deal with it.
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